Showing posts with label Real life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Real life. Show all posts

Thursday, March 8, 2012

REAL LIFE: WHAT REALLY HAPPENED ON THE 2ND DAY OF ARISE MAGAZINE FASHION WEEK IN LAGOS?




Nairoby Matos – Arise Magazine Issue 15 
 Yesterday  while checking my twitter timeline I came upon a few Nigerians bloggers tweets  stating that the local nigerian models were furious because allegedly   they were not getting paid the same as some of the other international models on the runway. I am not in Lagos so I could not  confirm exactly what happened but here is my 2 cents if this is what happened
  • Why we have yet to hear from the Arise Magazine team? My guess is they were not expecting something like this to happen. But nonetheless by now their Pr should have released a statement to let us know what's happening.


  • Why the F....k that model had to open her mouth  to tell someone else what how much she is making off the show ? Does she know about privacy. I guess she must be feeling really bad right now and might never get invited back to the show .


  • Why the F....k local models think they  should be making the same as others? I mean its obvious that models don't make the same for  the same gig. Naomi Campbell does not make same as other models even though they do the same job.  No one is irreplaceable so if you don't want to do the job someone else will do it.  They should be paid fairly but it up to every model to negotiate their own contract.

Friday, January 20, 2012

REAL LIFE FRIDAY: " I LIE, I STEAL, I SELL DRUG , I DON'T FOLLOW THE LAW"


 Yes, those are the words an Indiana mother had her son writes on a cardboard and have him stand  on the side of a busy street for 2 hours.  This story is making headlines accross the US. We know sometimes people are sentenced by the judge to hold signs as part of their punishment but to see a mother do something like this is a first for me . I guess this mother is tired of her son's ways and  took matter in her own hands.

Friday, January 6, 2012

REAL LIFE: NIGERIAN WOMEN SAY "NO" TO THEIR NATURAL HAIR

I found this interesting article at the Gardian a few days ago and I wanted to share and have a discussion with you. Let me start by saying that I am currently a proud natural girl however I have nothing against girls with straight hair. I had my straight almost all my life and I respect the way  people want to keep their hair. Our hair do not determine who we are as black women. keeping my natural does not make me more African than my friend who has straightened hair, its just a personal choice. I still rock my weaves, wigs and human hair all the time. Although this article only talks about Nigerian women this is a reality in almost all parts of Africa.Check it out below

Sunday, December 18, 2011

REAL LIFE : VICTORIA'S SECRET LINKED TO CHILD LABOR IN AFRICA


Although I had decided not to blog for the rest of the year  because of the holidays, I was so moved by this story reported by Cam Simpson for bloomberg that I had to write about it. According to his article ( which I suggest you read) Victoria secret is using child labor in Africa specifically in Burkina Faso to make your lingerie. The story which broke two days ago is about a young girl Clarisse who is forced to work in a cotton farm. She is not allowed to go to school , she is malnouriched, she is beaten, and barely gets to sleep at night. Here is just a snipet of the article:

Saturday, December 10, 2011

REAL LIFE: SOUTH AFRICAN SINGER MSHOZA WANTS TO BE WHITE

 I am adding a new section to this blog where I am going to talk about real life situations and we can discuss to keep the blog interesting. So I stumble upon this story on AfriPOP today about South African singer Mshoza bleaching her skin. AfriPOP reports that
this week she appeared on the popular South African talk show Motswako to declare her “passion to be white”. The horrified interviewer, Penny Lebyane, later said “Yes I was angry, Yes I took it personal! Yes I even wanted to shake her so I can get her to realize what she’s doing to herself!”

Monday, November 28, 2011

MY VERY FIRST BLOG INTERVIEW NIGHTMARE


When I started blogging 3 years ago I was just a girl with her laptop trying to make a change on the way people see , feel and think about African fashion. There was barely any website that did what I did. I had no experience at all with regards of how to get what i wanted as a blogger.Today I am going to tell you a story about how I got my first interview for the blog with an African fashion label and what i learned from it. So here I am with this blog with almost no content trying to get an interview with a somehow well established label. So since I lived quite far from them I sent them an email to find out if its possible for them to respond to a few questions for me. They responded a few days later and advised that they could. I was pretty happy, so the questions were sent off and the waiting game started. I waited patiently for two weeks and did not hear back, so I sent another brief message to remind them of the questions once again they got back to saying that they are working on it. Third and fourth fifth ,sixth week came and went and no answer. my blood started boiling a bit and I sent an email back to them on the 8th week and said the following." Hello, I was just following up with you again to see if you were still interested in doing the interview I know you might be busy however I know if this was vogue contacting you I am sure you would have found the time to respond quicker " OUPS. I felt so bad about sending that email. After my email I got an answer 3 hours later with my answers and they specified that they were just busy nothing do to with being vogue or not. What did I learn from this?